On Cheating and So Called “Male Nature”

As a woman, every time I hear an excuse justifying cheating, such as “polygamy is in male nature”, I get angry.

The thing is the men, who say that, only take a small part of their nature that suits them in this particular situation. What about the rest of it? What is in the male nature?

The male libido is so strong that a man will have an intercourse with any living creature. Starting from the most appropriate and ending with somebody that’ll just do, here and now. I suggest you look up statistics for such things as pedophilia, incest, rapes, etc., around the world. You’d be terrified to see the numbers.

For example, in a 1999 news story, BBC reported, “Close-knit family life in India masks an alarming amount of sexual abuse of children and teenage girls by family members, a new report suggests. Delhi organisation RAHI said 76% of respondents to its survey had been abused when they were children – 40% of those by a family member.”

Well, yes, you’re looking at the male nature as it is, not what you’ve made up in your mind.

From ancient times people knew there was no good in intercourses between related people. That’s why there were such thing as exogamy and taboos that prevented such undesirable blood mixture.

Why were these ancient societies forced to introduce these taboos? Simply because men would have sex with anyone. Literally anyone: one’s mother, sister, cousin, — it didn’t matter. These things do not matter for the true nature of male libido.

Culture has done a lot to push all of this away, but it’s still there.

Bare in mind, that in some ancient cultures incest wasn’t considered to be something wrong as some men don’t consider polygamy to be wrong, both things can be equally described as something that is in the “male nature”.

From the point of view of the modern values in our modern society, there are many dark and unpleasant things in our “animal” nature.

You may have as many women as you want, but don’t ever refer to your “male nature” as an excuse to your actions, if you don’t realize its scope.

by Kate

One thought on “On Cheating and So Called “Male Nature””

  1. Ok Kate, your on to us.
    You are correct to a point. The male nature and mission whether human or otherwise is to pollinate as many flowers as possible, it is what we do. Please do not compare all males alike and lump us all together with goat rapers because we are not. Many of us recognize this basic instinct and make a choice to resist and over come it.
    Your post is insightful and well said. The animal nature of human beings can not be ignored, it is there 24-7-365 like it or not. I personally don’t like it very much, causes too much stress and stress is a killer. With modern medicine being what it is creating products that stimulate animalistic behaviors such as aggression along with “increasing sexual performance” for profit ignoring the unpleasant side effects like getting to meet officer friendly in a not so friendly way after starting fights or hurting someone. Helping to create children neither party wanted or are able to care for, the list goes on.
    I stumbled on this website while surfing and have found it to be very interesting and informative. All of the posts I have read so far are like yours open and informative. Being a person who loves to learn curiosity is a big part of my nature, that animal nature that belongs and lives in the within the realm of the male hunter instinct. That instinct is what causes us to want to see what is over that next hill. Unfortunately it also leads to us to getting into trouble like cheating on a mate. After the conquest the need to repeat that feeling again on another objective is pretty strong.
    The trick is to be smart enough to realize this nature exists and examine it for what it is, animalistic behavior hard wired into our genetic make up. The purpose for it is to insure the continuation of the species, be fruitful and multiply. With say for example the population of India being over 3.3 billion people being fruitful is an understatement.
    In some cultures being a pig is normal and expected in a big part due to raw ignorance and selfishness. I know that familiarity is a driver for some like a woman that can pick out and zero in on the one male alcoholic abuser out of 100 males in a room and pick him to mate with. Weird as hell but this is a fact as are selfish people who will prey on their fellow humans like vampires. They will suck out the life force of others until all that remains is an empty husk of what was once a vibrant human being.
    Life is what it is and it will never change. The one thing we all have the ability to do is to understand it, accept it for what it is and choose to climb out of the primordial slime. There was a Star Trek episode where Captain Kirk was challenged by some superior life form regarding humanities killer nature. Kirk’s answer was “Yes we are killers but we can choose to not kill today”, or something to that effect. To all when you wake up in the morning, or afternoon, for some :) , choose to be a caring person, a loving person to be a positive influence in your community and the world. Being tough sometimes is kindness even with yourself. Call out evil where it exists whether it is in you or others and reject it.
    Peace V,
    Rod

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