Today I want to reply to some of the comments left to quite a popular post of mine called “32 Reasons Why You Can’t Get a GF“.
All those comments have a similar main point, so I decided to write a different post to give a reply to them altogether.
What is special about those replies is that guys:
1. are sure that women are spoiled nowadays
2. they have no chance of getting a GF due to the argument given above, as well as due to some of their own drawbacks.
Some comments are written in a doomed way, using such words as ‘never’ and ‘forever’.
Well, guys, I don’t want to spend this cold Sunday morning trying to change your mind. I’m not going to motivate you in any way. And here’s why.
I won’t do all that, because I respect you. I respect you as a human being, who has its own Will and the Right of Choice.
You are grown-up people, you are adults, and I have no intention to criticize your choice, your decision.
I really hate when someone tries to dictate me his/her own opinion/viewpoint. I’m sure you do not like it either.
If you made a decision, and this decision does not hurt me or my interests, then why should I bother? (In fact, from the biological point of view, your decision to give up on dating women benefits my interests, because I, as a male, have more females available.)
Nothing is set in stone. Who said that someone needs a girlfriend? There’s a friend of mine… he lives fulfilled and, as I think, genuinely happy life without a GF.
It’s your life, and only you know how to live it. Does a lion ask any other animal how to act, how to behave? Of course, not.